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b"Are we our own worst enemies when it comes to romance? What if instead, we dated like a scientist, using equations and analysis, rather than feelings and attraction to find love.\\nIn this new episode Steven sits down with dating coach and behavioural scientist, Logan Ury.\\nLogan is a behavioural expert, dating coach and Director of Relationship Science at the dating app,\\xa0Hinge. She is also the author of the book, \\u2018How To Not Die Alone\\u2019, which outlines the scientific theories she uses with her clients to help them find love.\\n\\nIn this conversation Logan and Steven discuss topics, such as:\\n\\nWhy Logan is a dating coach and her work with Hinge\\n\\nHow she helps people get out of their own way and find their dating blindspots\\n\\nThe ways that modern dating is very new\\xa0for history\\n\\nResearching the dating habits of Gen Z\\n\\nHiring a dating coach for herself\\n\\nHow Logan found her husband at work\\n\\nAttachment theory and its importance for dating\\n\\nHow you can change your attachment style\\n\\nThe negativity bias and how our brain runs on ancient software\\n\\nWhy you should go for a securely attached person who may seem boring\\n\\nThe reasons that securely attached people are the heroes of the dating world\\n\\nWhy people are so addicted to f**k boys\\n\\nThe importance of taking a break during a fight\\n\\nUnderstanding our dating patterns and how we can change them\\n\\nThe secretary problem and the maths of when to stop looking and choose someone\\n\\nDigital Body Language and how it impacts dating\\n\\nWhy people confuse \\u2018ick\\u2019s\\u2019 for dealbreakers\\n\\nWhy you should overcome your \\u2018ick\\u2019s\\u2019\\n\\nThe 3 most common dating tendencies and unrealistic expectations\\n\\nWhy the dating environment is so important\\n\\nHow to date like a scientist\\n\\nWhy you shouldn't try to be perfect on a date\\n\\nVulnerability as a magnet for connection\\n\\nThe post date 8 checklist\\n\\nWhy you should ignore the spark and focus on the slow burn\\n\\nWhat things matter less than people think for relationships and what do they underestimate\\n\\nWhy you need to be able to fight well in a relationship\\n\\nThe tips and tricks to a dating profile\\n\\nwhy vulnerability is strength\\n\\nThe difference between a maximiser and a satisfier\\n\\nLogan\\u2019s husbands cancer\\n\\nLiving on a commune\\n\\n\\nYou can find out which of the 3 dating tendencies you are with Logan\\u2019s quiz, here: https://bit.ly/491O3lj\\n\\nYou can purchase Logan\\u2019s book, \\u2018How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love\\u2019, here: https://amzn.to/476uvdV\\n\\nFollow Logan:\\nInstagram: https://bit.ly/3SddZUL\\nTwitter: https://bit.ly/46IWMqV\\n\\nFollow me:\\n\\ufeffhttps://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices"